Friday, October 24, 2008

My Heart is Sad

Today we took the boys to my 16 week OB appointment to find out if the baby was a girl or a boy. There was no heartbeat. This is my third miscarriage and the second one to happen out of the first trimester. We are at home needing to make some decisions about our next steps. I would covet your prayers. My heart is broken today.


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46 comments:

  1. AnonymousOctober 24, 2008 at 12:22 PM

    Jennefer,
    I have had that exact experience. I know what you are going thru. Know that you are in my prayers.
    ((((((HUGS)))))))

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  2. AmyOctober 24, 2008 at 12:50 PM

    Oh Jennefer, I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family. (((Hugs)))

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  3. McNeill FamilyOctober 24, 2008 at 1:11 PM

    I am so sorry for your news today and how hard that must have been to experience with your boys there. I will pray for you and your family through this tough time.
    -Denise

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  4. Hen JenOctober 24, 2008 at 1:32 PM

    Jennefer,

    I am so sorry.

    Hugs...

    and I will be praying for you and your family.

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  5. argsmommyOctober 24, 2008 at 2:08 PM

    Jennefer,

    I too am so sorry. You are all in my prayers.

    Kellie

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  6. KarenOctober 24, 2008 at 2:25 PM

    So sorry, Jennefer. I'll be praying for you and your family.

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  7. Manderly RingorOctober 24, 2008 at 2:48 PM

    I am so sorry...we have lost a little one at 20 weeks so I know this is a hard time. I am praying for you and your family.

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  8. JenniferOctober 24, 2008 at 3:09 PM

    Jennefer - I'm so sad to hear your news. I'm glad you shared so I can join in praying for you and your family. I hope you let those who love you take care of you during this time of sadness.

    Jennifer

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  9. Shannon @ Some Fine TatersOctober 24, 2008 at 3:15 PM

    Oh, Jennefer. I'm sorry. You and your family will be in my prayers.

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  10. AndreaOctober 24, 2008 at 3:19 PM

    There really are no words that I could give you. I am sad for you and you family too ... and I will be praying for comfort and peace for you all.
    Andrea

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  11. ToniaOctober 24, 2008 at 3:46 PM

    I'm so sorry for you and your family. You are in my prayers.

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  12. thebookbagladyOctober 24, 2008 at 4:04 PM

    I miscarried my first pregnancy. It was heart wrenching. My prayers are with you.
    Love, Gretchen

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  13. JenniferOctober 24, 2008 at 4:47 PM

    So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family...

    Jennifer

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  14. ByHISgoodGraceOctober 24, 2008 at 4:54 PM

    Jennefer,
    I am so sorry. I miscarried babies in my third and fourth pregnancies, one of which was also discovered in an ultrasound, it is so traumatic. My heart is aching for you. I will be praying for you often.
    Katrina

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  15. AnonymousOctober 24, 2008 at 6:06 PM

    Jennefer-
    I'm so terribly terribly sorry for you right now. I also miscarried a while back and know how heart-wrenching it is. I'll be praying for you.
    Many hugs,
    Kristiana

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  16. Amico DioOctober 24, 2008 at 8:19 PM

    Jennefer,

    I am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. (((BIG hug)))

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  17. ReneeOctober 24, 2008 at 9:02 PM

    Jennefer,
    So very, very sorry for your loss. I will pray for you right now.

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  18. AnonymousOctober 24, 2008 at 11:08 PM

    Oh Jennefer,
    I am so very sorry and saddened by your news. I will keep you, your baby, and your family in prayer.
    Hugs
    Stacy

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  19. CeliaOctober 25, 2008 at 12:41 AM

    I'm so very sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.

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  20. RenayOctober 25, 2008 at 12:42 AM

    Jennefer and family, My heart is so sad for you today. No words ~ just tears for you and many prayers. Renay

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  21. BrittneyOctober 25, 2008 at 12:46 AM

    I am so sorry to hear this news.

    (((((you and your family)))))

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  22. RhondaOctober 25, 2008 at 11:03 AM

    I saw your post on WTM. I am very sorry for your loss and I'll be praying for you. I have experienced this myself and understand the grief that you have.
    May God's grace abundantly cover your pain.

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  23. KimOctober 25, 2008 at 11:40 AM

    My heart breaks for you and your family. You are in my prayers. I hope you find peace with this through your prayers.

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  24. Alane @RaHOctober 25, 2008 at 1:12 PM

    I'm so sad to hear about the baby. praying for you.

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  25. UnknownOctober 25, 2008 at 5:20 PM

    So sorry for your painful loss.

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  26. TonyaOctober 25, 2008 at 7:22 PM

    I have felt the pain you are in right now.Our prayers are with you and your family.

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  27. four little blessingsOctober 25, 2008 at 9:22 PM

    I will raise you up in prayer. May God hold you close and comfort you in this time.

    Tammy

    http://4kidsseriousworkseriousfun.blogspot.com/

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  28. LLLAcademyOctober 26, 2008 at 6:24 AM

    Jennefer, I am so sorry for the loss you and your family are going through. I will be praying for you and your family.

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  29. PaigeOctober 26, 2008 at 7:29 PM

    Jennefer, I'm late in seeing this. I hope that the Lord has given you peace and comfort.

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  30. TiffanyOctober 27, 2008 at 8:47 AM

    Jennefer,
    There really are no words for the pain you are in - You are in my prayers. May you feel the peace that only God may give & comfort in the prayers of other mothers who have been there.

    "Arise, cry aloud in the night....Pour out your heart like water before the presence of the Lord..." Lamentations 2:19

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  31. Ms EvaOctober 27, 2008 at 10:09 AM

    I am so sorry, Jennefer. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  32. AnonymousOctober 27, 2008 at 6:29 PM

    Jennefer,

    I wish there was something we could do. I don't know you but my heart is heavy for you. I am so sorry for your loss.

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  33. momtimeOctober 28, 2008 at 3:09 PM

    Praying for you and your family! My heart is heavy for you and yet joyful for the one who is already at the feet of our Lord.

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  34. TaraOctober 28, 2008 at 3:19 PM

    Praying for you today. I'm so sorry for your loss. May God give you comfort and peace.

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  35. The Phamily MatriarchOctober 29, 2008 at 12:25 AM

    Jennefer,

    I am so sorry. I know and understand your pain. I wished for a comforted heart and a calm spirit as you endure this painful journey of loss.

    May God give you peace.

    ~Jaclyn~

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  36. AnonymousOctober 30, 2008 at 9:08 AM

    I am now praying for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how hard that must be for you, your husband and children.

    Blessing,
    Shannon C

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  37. Just His BestOctober 30, 2008 at 1:35 PM

    I am so sorry. I miscarried two weeks ago and found out as well at the ultrasound. I am now discovering what a process grief really is- good days, bad days, sorrowful nights, weeping mornings and everything in between. I'm so glad to have my other three little ones and my husband surrounding me and the peace of a Savior that never forsakes us. Draw near to Him...

    Kelli

    www.justhisbest.blogspot.com

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  38. Just His BestOctober 30, 2008 at 1:41 PM

    BTW, in case it helps...

    http://www.justhisbest.com/search?updated-max=2008-10-12T21%3A02%3A00-04%3A00&max-results=7

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  39. Teacher/MomOctober 30, 2008 at 4:23 PM

    As one who has also been there, no words can really be said. Will be praying for you all. God is good, all the time. All the time, God is good. May He hold you in His arms and carry you during this time.

    Blessings.

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  40. SunnyNovember 2, 2008 at 9:45 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. Having been thru infertility and in-vitro 3x with no baby to bring home, having lost one pregnancy that was tubal, I understand the hope for a child that then is lost. Prayers for y'all.

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  41. GIRL WITH GRACENovember 2, 2008 at 5:01 PM

    Praying for your comfort and peace . . . from across the pond.

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  42. AngelaNovember 7, 2008 at 8:26 AM

    I am sorry for your loss- May God send peace and love your way- Angela

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  43. AnonymousNovember 9, 2008 at 8:44 AM

    My heart breaks for you. God bless you.
    Lisa

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  44. AnonymousNovember 11, 2008 at 7:53 AM

    Jennefer, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. :-(

    Dawne

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  45. mistyNovember 13, 2008 at 11:11 AM

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I had a moral pregnancy five years ago. Four months after that I found out I was expecting again. However, when I went in at 22 weeks, I too had taken my two older children with me, we found out that our son had died. I was one of the hardest times of my life yet God brought great joy in the sadness. We had to deliver him and lay him to rest. However, God was with us all along. God bless,

    Misty

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  46. Teacher of OneNovember 28, 2008 at 9:18 PM

    Oh I am so sorry... my BF just went through this this weekend at 21 weeks.

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